In my last post [click here for the first of the series], I discussed the personalities, coping strategies, and health-related needs of the third type of individual, the "Inactives." I now conclude this series by examining the fourth and most resistant group: the "Ignorers/Deniers."
Simply put, Ignorers/Deniers just don't focus on their health. This is for a variety of reasons, which I'll be discussing. First, these people "close their eyes and ears" to information about healthy living. They refuse to acknowledge or accept they have health problems or risk factors, or they refuse to do anything about it. These maladaptive behaviors are a consequence of a mindset they adopt, which includes thoughts such as:
- "I do not accept there's a problem with my health" – despite convincing evidence.
- "I fine the way I am … It doesn't matter what others say" – even though their health is deteriorating, relationships are crumbling, and overall quality of life is suffering.
- "I'm different … I'm special … I'm not like those other people … Nothing's going to happen to me!" – a false sense of security and invincibility.
- "I don't trust doctors" – an attitude based on gross overgeneralization.
- "Getting help is a sign of weakness ... A strong person handles one's own problems" – an irrational belief driven by pride and based on a distorted measure of self-worth.
Ignorers/Deniers, therefore, differ from the other personality types in essential ways; for example:
- The three other types of individuals think about their health, and when confronted with a health problem, many question whether they can make good decisions and help improve things, which may make them anxious due to self-doubt. Nevertheless, despite their anxiety and doubt, they are willing to learn and act wisely. Many Ignorers/Deniers, on the other hand, are so terrified by the notion they may have (or get) a severe illness that they avoid thinking about their physical and emotional health—preferring, instead, to pretend everything is all right. As a result, Ignorers/Deniers may refuse to accept the reality of their situation, even when confronted with the threat that they will probably die from their health problems; to them, the thought of being or being ill is too great to consider. Although this self-deception may keep their fear in check for a while, their inaction and ignorance make them vulnerable to worsening health and personal problems.
- If Ignorers/Deniers did think about their health, many would feel hopeless and helpless, believing they cannot deal with serious illnesses or personal problems. And those who portray an air of invincibility are likely covering up great self-doubt and fear, or they may be delusional.
- While other types of individuals may have valid concerns about finding a competent healthcare practitioner, some Ignorers/Deniers are so distrustful of the healthcare profession that they won't even consider seeing a doctor, even if they are in pain or distress, often until it's too late.
- While health problems may cause other types of people to become sad or even depressed, for a time, they can get themselves motivated and begin to take constructive action because they want to live and be happy. Ignorers/Deniers, on the other hand, may be so lonely and depressed that they believe they have nothing for which to live. For them, living longer in chronic emotional pain isn't motivating. And when confronted with the knowledge that their health risks can kill them, many Ignorers/Deniers deny the facts because the idea of dying is also too emotionally painful for them to acknowledge; the threat of death, therefore, isn't a motivator. In fact, the odds are great that such a person will fail to make substantial lifestyle changes, even if facing probable death. This prevents them from having the drive and focus needed for constructive action.
- While other individuals are willing to get help when needed, Ignorers/Deniers may have been so influenced by their cultures that they believe seeking assistance for personal problems is a sign of weakness.
- Unlike the other personality types, Ignorers/Deniers may have physical addictions or powerful psychological compulsions that prevent them from focusing on healthy living until they reach "rock bottom," which, unfortunately, may be too late.
What this means is that Ignorers/Deniers rely on some of the same "avoidance" coping strategies as the Wannabes and Inactives; that is, they may:
- Try to feel better by doing enjoyable or interesting things rather than gaining knowledge and developing a plan of action
- Act as if nothing has happened or trying not to think about their problems
- Resign themselves that nothing can be done to improve the situation, even though they lack adequate understanding and fail to exert sufficient effort.
As I discussed in my previous posts, these coping strategies are maladaptive in the long term since the inertia (inaction) they promote allows their health risks to emerging as serious problems and their existing health problems to worsen.
Because these thoughts, feelings, and reactions are so deeply ingrained in their personalities, getting through to Ignorers/Deniers is very difficult. However, all is not lost! Consider the following:
- There are compelling discoveries in cognitive science, linguistics, and neuroscience about how "reframing" serious health-related issues can help motivate resistant people to change. For example, instead of trying to break through the denial of Ignorers/Deniers through threats they will die, it may be much more helpful to reframe the issue in a way that focuses them on a vision of "joyful living" rather than a "fear of dying," since joy is a more powerful motivator than fear [reference]. This kind of reframing changes the mental structures that shape one's view of the world; it typically requires months of psychological counseling to break through the thoughts and feelings that block Ignorers/Deniers' awareness and motivation to change.
- When cultural influences create a "machismo" attitude, in which Ignorers/Deniers perceive getting help as a sign of personal weakness or failure, cognitive-behavioral counseling can combat that belief. In addition, innovative self-help software that guides the person toward healthier behavior and thinking can be helpful. One focus would be reframing the situation from (a) getting help revealing weakness to (b) receiving help when needed and using it to improve one's life is a sign of wisdom and personal strength, whereas refusing help is childish and self-destructive.
- Dealing with a person's lack of trust may require the intervention of a wellness coach who takes the time to establish a close, positive relationship with the Ignorer/Denier and has the knowledge and experience to gain the person's confidence.
- As for Ignorers/Deniers with addictions or compulsions, lengthy counseling (and possible medications) may be needed before they acknowledge their problems and have the will to confront them.
Regarding wellness programs, the Ignorers/Deniers are the least likely to participate. Engaging them is critical, such as offering meaningful incentives to take a self-assessment and speak with a wellness coach. The initial goal of such wellness counseling should focus on understanding and helping reframe their beliefs and perceptions. This will enable them to be more open to gaining awareness about their health situation. Innovative technologies that help focus and entice people to break through their negative mindsets and resistance would be helpful. Once Ignorers/Deniers stop deceiving themselves, have a stronger desire to live and enjoy life, gain trust, are more aware and open to receiving help, and are no longer controlled by their addictions/compulsions, they can be treated as Inactives or Wannabes as appropriate.
In my last post, I discussed the personalities, coping strategies, and need of the "Wannabes." This time I examine the "Inactives."
Inactives think about their health on occasion but do not believe they should or can do anything to improve their health and wellbeing. This is because they tend to have thoughts such as:
- "I doubt I'll be able to do what's required to improve my health, so why even bother."
- "I don't deserve to be sick…it's not my fault…so why should I have to be the one to do anything about it"—or—"I do deserve to be sick…Illness is my punishment…I'm just getting what I deserve."
Inactives doubt that they can deal effectively with their health risks and problems, which causes them great stress. Some also believe they don't deserve what happened to them, making them resentful and angry. This stress and resentful anger not only distract them from focusing on constructive health improvement activities; it is also likely to worsen their physical health since illnesses such as coronary heart disease and cancer may be exacerbated by a negative psychological state (for examples of how this mind-body connection affects one's health, see: this link, this link, and this link). Other Inactives may have different views, such as believing they deserve to be sick and there's no hope because they are doomed.
The result is that the Inactives, like the Wannabes, lack the self-confidence and motivation to improve their health and wellbeing. But what makes Inactives less likely to change their unhealthy lifestyles is that:
- Their self-doubt is stronger because it comes from the belief that they are not able (rather than may not be able) to (a) make the correct decision about treatment for an existing problem or (b) make the attitude and behavior changes required for better health and wellbeing.
- Their inertia (inaction) may be exacerbated by (a) fear that they will be shamed if they try to improve their health and failure causes them to resist taking constructive action, (b) the belief that there is no good way to solve their health problems or prevent their health risks from becoming problems, and (c) despair related to the belief they deserve to be ill.
- Their stress and resentful anger likely worsen their health through distraction and the adverse effect of negative emotions on physiology.
Furthermore, they will likely look for reasons for not adhering to the wellness care plan, such as:
- Money problems that prevent them from carrying out their wellness plan of care (e.g., buying more healthy foods, a gym membership, prescribed medications, diagnostic tests, etc.)
- Family and other demands consume their time and thus make lifestyle change difficult.
- Physical handicaps or cognitive impairments.
The result is that Inactives fail to deal with their health risk and problems promptly and effectively while simultaneously worsening their health and wellbeing through inertia and emotional distress.
The way Inactives attempt to cope with their pessimism, fear, anger, resentment, and despair is similar to the negative avoidance strategies the Wannabes use. That is, they may
- Try to feel better by doing enjoyable or interesting things rather than focusing on the problem.
- Act as if nothing has happened or try not to think about their problems.
- Express negative emotions by yelling or crying, taking it out on others, or avoiding certain people rather than doing something constructive.
- Hope a miracle will make things better or that one's wishes or prayers will be answered, rather than gaining knowledge and developing a plan of action.
- Resign themselves that nothing can be done to improve the situation, even though they lack adequate understanding and fail to exert sufficient effort.
While these coping strategies may alleviate their emotional distress temporarily, they are maladaptive in the long term since their inaction allows their health risks to emerging as serious problems and their existing health problems to worsen.
Nevertheless, since Inactives think about their health & wellbeing on occasion, it is possible for them to become more focused and motivated with the help of wellness coaches/counselors and helpful health information technologies. They may be willing, for example, to take health risk assessments that evaluate their health status, especially if they have concerns about their physical or emotional health. They may also be willing to gain greater knowledge about their problems, risks, and constructive strategies for dealing with them, although they will likely have to be convinced (through counseling and maybe incentives) to use these tools and professionals. And they may be willing to get help to:
- Use the knowledge they gain to make a treatment decision for dealing with an acute physical or mental health problem.
- Implement a wellness care plan designed to self-manage a chronic condition.
- Make positive lifestyle changes to avoid a risk factor from becoming a health problem.
All this means they will need wellness counseling, which should focus on the following:
- Overcoming their inertia, changing their self-defeating cognitive and emotional blocks (including self-doubt, fear, anger, and shame)
- Replacing their negative avoidance-based coping strategies with the positive approaches of the Activists.
This counseling should include powerful forms of persuasion in which well-care professionals--using next-generation health information technologies, which I will describe in a future post--help increase their willingness to take responsible action that improves their health and wellbeing. This is likely to involve significant effort focused on changing beliefs/thoughts. I have previously posted about the relationship between beliefs and physical health, starting at this link.
In my next post, I examine the fourth most challenging personality type: the "Ignorers/Deniers."
In my last post, I explained why "Activists" — the first of four types of people affected by influential psychological characteristics — tend to be healthiest and why they are most likely to take advantage of wellness programs. In addition, I discussed how they have the kind of personality traits that enable them to cope with health-related issues through positive action and rational acceptance. In this post, I discuss a second group of individuals with different personalities and coping strategies: the "Wannabes."
Wannabes talk about improving their health & well-being and are willing to learn about healthy living, but they never seem to act on it or do so half-heartedly. This is because they tend to have thoughts such as:
- "I may be able to do what's required to improve my health, but I'd rather not deal with it right now."
- "I'm not sure what to do."
- "I'm just not ready."
As a result, Wannabes tend to be aware--or are willing to be aware--of their physical and mental health problems & risks, but they lack the self-confidence and motivation they need when it comes to doing something about it. Their self-doubt and lack of drive may come from the belief that they may not make correct decisions about preventing or treating their problems. This uncertainty, in turn, may cause them to avoid making decisions and changing their attitudes & behaviors for fear of failure; i.e., they don't want to be ashamed or embarrassed if they try but fail. Or if they believe there's no acceptable way to solve their health problems or prevent their health risks from becoming problems, they will likely take no action.
Wannabes, in other words, tend to cope with their doubts and fears through avoidance. What they do, for example, is:
- Try to feel better by doing enjoyable or interesting things rather than focusing on the problem.
- Act as if nothing has happened or try not to think about their problems.
- Express negative emotions by yelling or crying, taking it out on others, or avoiding certain people rather than doing something constructive.
- Hope a miracle will make things better or that one's wishes or prayers will be answered, rather than gaining knowledge and developing a plan of action.
- Resign themselves that nothing can be done to improve the situation, even though they lack adequate understanding and fail to exert adequate effort.
While some of these coping strategies may temporarily alleviate their emotional distress, they are maladaptive in the long term since they foster procrastination, which allows their health risks to become severe and worsen their existing health problems. Nevertheless, there are several positive and negative aspects of the Wannabe personality.
On the positive side, since Wannabes think and talk about improving their health & well-being, they will likely want to participate (to some degree) in health promotion programs that:
- Evaluate their health status, especially if they have concerns about their physical and/or emotional states.
- Help them learn about their problems or risk factors, including understanding the pros & cons of different treatment and prevention options.
On the negative side, Wannabes are likely to procrastinate when it comes to:
- Using their knowledge to make decisions about dealing with (treating) acute physical or mental health problems
- Acting on wellness plans designed to self-manage chronic conditions and avoid complications
- Making positive lifestyle changes to prevent risk factors from becoming health problems.
If they have money problems—which prevent them from carrying out their wellness plan of care (e.g., buying more healthy foods, a gym membership, prescribed medications, diagnostic tests, etc.)—they may use it as an excuse for not making a firm decision or adhering to the wellness care plan.
If they have family and other demands that consume their time and thus make lifestyle change difficult, they will likely use it as an excuse for non-action. And if they have physical handicaps or cognitive impairments, they will likely use these limitations as excuses for inaction.
All this means they will need wellness counseling focused on modifying their self-defeating cognitive and emotional blocks (including self-doubt, fear, and shame) and changing their avoidance-based coping strategies. The goal is to help them become more like Activists. Only then will they be willing to take responsible action that improves their health and well-being.
In my next post, I'll examine the third personality type: the "Inactive."